Falling in love in three days sounds like a dream—or a red flag. My experience with a girl on a matrimony app made me question everything. Was it love, delusion, or just a test of patience?
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A Match Made in a Matrimony App?
I met her on a matrimony app. She was 26, cute, and chubby—not fat, just the right kind of soft. We started talking, and before I knew it, we had chatted for three hours straight. She asked about me, and I answered everything honestly. I told her she could ask whatever she wanted, and she did—continuing the conversation the next day too.
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Love at First Text?
By the third day, she said something that threw me off. She told me she was falling for me. No, actually—she said she was in love. Falling in love in three days? That made no sense. I mean, I know I’m a good guy, but love in three days? No mature person would do that. But she seemed convinced.
She told me she had no past. That she had saved herself for her future husband. She wouldn’t even put her pictures on Jeevansathi. After I requested, she uploaded three, but then I noticed she removed them again. When I asked why, she said she only wanted her future husband to see her pictures. Weird. Even weirder.
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Something Didn’t Add Up
We talked about a lot of things—some of it totally unnecessary. She told me she had been living away from her family for a year. That two of her three roommates were “b****es” who spent nights in their boyfriends’ rooms. And that she never did. She swore she was different. But how? How does someone stay so pure in that kind of company? It didn’t add up. And falling in love in three days still felt like a joke.
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No Phone Number, But In Love?
I told her exactly that—it was hard to believe. She got hurt. Said she was serious about me. But if she really was, why wouldn’t she even share her phone number?
What kind of love is it when you don’t trust the person you love with your phone number?
I made it clear—I was here for marriage, not for playing around. If we wanted to take things forward, our families needed to be involved. That’s when the falling in love in three days meltdown happened. She accused me of questioning her feelings, said she had never liked anyone else, and sent me emotional, filmy tantrum messages.
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The Three-Day Cry Fest
Listen, I’m 30. Life has already kicked me in the face too many times to believe in three-day fairy tales. So, I gave her space. Told her to think it over and decide if she really wanted to involve our families. We didn’t talk for two days. Then, I asked her what she had decided.
She said she had cried for three days straight. She called herself “fluffy,” a “bad girl,” and kept repeating that I had doubted her feelings. She made it sound like I had broken her beyond repair.
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Did I Break Her Heart?
I told her she had my number. If she ever decided she was serious about marriage, she could call me. And I disconnected.
Some of the things she said felt fake. Some were pure tantrums. But some of them? They hit deep. Falling in love in three days is insane, right? But did I actually break her heart?
I don’t know. I never wanted to hurt anyone. But now, I’m left wondering—was I wrong?
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